There's a rich vein of Lightbulb jokes in the trans community, two of my favourites are;
Q1. How many Clinical Psychologists does it take to change a lightbulb?
A1 . Just the one, but only after another professional has confirmed the bulb has failed, and the bulb has to be able to give consent, have capacity and be willing and open to make a change
Q2. How many Feminism Appropriating Reactionary Transphobes does it take to change a lightbulb ?
A2. None, they use Gas-lighting
The fact these topics are common jokes indicates a commonality of experience with the content of the jokes as a near universal experience of transness .
imaging waiting over three years to change a lightbulb ?