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Fragile Masculinity

 Something which has become increasingly apparent to me is that  cisgender men really don't like  havign their ignorance shown up.  They will use whatever power they have to censure, gaslight and marginalise women who stand up to them and  who actually know about a topic.  They will also jump to the  defence of other misogynists  and take any notice  that misuse of process  will not be tolerated as a reason to double down and  threaten  women. they also as a spinal reflex threaten violence and/or exclusion.   

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