Confidence is a preference ...
So I cut down on my porklife got some exercise! and I don't get intimidated by the dirty pigeons (TERFs and transphobes) ...
there is a route straight through transition but it requires planning and the straightest route is not cheap... If I had the five figure sum for GCS i'd be a few weeks to months and 600 quid away from the green light, but despite the NHS struggling they point blank refuse to accept even diagnoses of gender Dysphoria from T493 listed clinicians who work in other GICs just because it's on a piece of paper that doesn't say NHS on the top ...
Social transition - tick
Year on properly supervised hormones - tick (even if they then said a year of T suppression - that would be tick in December)
Supportive home circumstances - tick
In work or other meaningful activity -tick
various people talk about how they get harassed in public , often in the same spaces use and some of these people are far more close up visually passable than I am (Nicola curses her hairline again) yet i don't seem to get that - Louise suggested it is because i have presence and give off at least the illusion of confidence when I go into a space, also that i seem to have got the whole 'being unapolgetically trans' thing down
sometimes it's just about 'owning it' - and the confidence to do that has come from people i now count as friends - even if some of them admit they struggle with it themselves.
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